Blindsided by Love?

When looking at relationships in today's society I can't help to ask myself why we as women keep repeating negative relationship cycles? In past times it has been the norm for us to blame the man for relationship downfalls and in certain situations I can agree. But in some other situations one has to ask herself what part did I play in the downfall. Did I really listen and look at what my boyfriend was telling me or did I just build this relationship around what I wanted and needed.
One mistake women make is not paying attention to what is going on in the relationship.  Many of us feel slighted or "blind-sided" when the relationship ends, were we really blind-sided or was our partner telling us all along what was coming. Men display certain signs that they aren't interested in moving forward with you. Some signs consist of:

• Suddenly withdrawing-the man is separting from you. This can be in both mental and physical. 
• Conversations are at a minimum-he has very little words for you
• Working late-his work schedule has become very hectic and business trips has increased
• Staying out late-an old yet reliable sign he would rather be out with friends than you.
• Present becomes minimal to non-existent-birthday, Christmas presents are not as special or well thought out anymore.
• Family gatherings are less frequent- you guys no longer go to family fuctions, he is weening you off his family. 
• Compliments haults- he stops complimenting you.
• Sex becomes different or stops-This sign can become confusing mostly due to the physical  connection. When he plans on leaving some guys will have break-up sex not to be confused with make-up sex. Break-up sex is the finish line of physical aspect of the relationship. 
• Family members act strange around you-He has already told them you guys are done.

There way more signs, when women see these signs we have as choice either we can fight for our relationship or save ourselves from further heartbreak. For those who want to stay and fight ask yourself what are you fighting for, when a man has gone as far as to disconnect

with you the relationship is already done . He has no intention on marrying you and the connection you once shared is gone. So what are you really fighting for?