Talk About It

Cheating, is very hot subject matter when talking about relationships, I can't tell you how many conversations I've been involved in dealing with relationships that always end with questions about cheating. Is it okay to take your partner back after cheating?  or is cheating just an unforgivable crime in a relationship that has no room for forgiveness? So I ask the question are you a person who forgives your partner's cheating heart or a person who has no room cheaters in their life?

When is it comfortable to move on from a past relationship? Some people move rather fast jumping from one person to another, but are they really moving on or are they just replacing the missing part of their lives.  I personally believe in healing your heart and soul before stepping into a new relationship, you never want to carry baggage from a previous relationship into a new one.  Also it gives you a chance to really get to know yourself, know what you really want in a mate, know what you will and will not go for in a relationship. Tell me how you guys feel, when is it comfortable to move on from a past relationship?

What are the elements of love, what is so different in today's society where marriages and relationships seem to fall before they are securely structured? Back in February the longest living couple whom have been married for over 84 years were giving relationship advice for others seeking to save or rekindle their relationship. One comment from them that stuck the most to me is when they stated "communication is key" and there are no magical or quick fixes in marriage". Sometimes I feel by us living in such a quick and instant society we tend to look for a quick fix and if that fix or change doesn't come quick enough then hey the relationship is over. Now granted they are some relationship situations  that are straight to the point deal-breakers, but there are some that can be worked-out if the love is really strong. You sometimes have to think what has that couple gone through after 84 years of marriage. I think we as people should figure out first what can and