Talk About It

Oh those three letter words can drive anyone mad. There are so many topics one can cover when discussing this hot topic, let's see where can we start? sex on the first date. Is it OK to have sex on the first date, me personally will not ever do it, but there are certain circumstances that people just can't help themselves the attraction or liquor is so high that some just can't resist and just completely give in. After the deed is done and all feelings are disposed of what happends next, some people find themselves really looking for love but get caught up with their sex drive. Therefore they entertain the wrong individuals, and end up with the short end of the stick, even though you may have good intentions if you display your goods to early you could be repeating the sex cycle all over again.  Question: Sex on the first date, is it ok? why or why not?

How many of you guys tried online dating, Right now I am trying a series of online dating websites to see which ones are effective. Online dating has become the new theme for overall dating, you meet someone and click there you have it your ideal match. But I will not give up on the traditional face-to-face meeting and dating scene but I just want to see how effective is online dating. I will keep you guys posted the outcome of my adventures in online dating. In the meantime share your experiences with online dating good or bad.

It's funny how many times I've heard the same complaints about relationship issues from men and women, why can't she or he act right?, why are they so jealous and insecure? Or why can't I find a good woman or man? It seems to me that there might not be that much of a difference between problems men have with women and women have with men.  I hear men complain about the type of women they have relationships with are basically no good and I hear women complain about the same issues dealing with men, now grant it they are not the exact same complaints but damn near. So I ask what is the issues? If as women or men we know what we want why do we entertain what we don't want and then complain about it? And if men and women are basically complaining about the same flaws within relationships why can't they seem to find each other and have a genuine relationship?