Real Housewives Drama !!!

One of my guilty pleasures is watching The Real Housewives "reality" show franchise, and the ladies of ATL are one of my faves. But Sunday night's episode was emotionally disturbing to me, to recap the happenings of the Georgia peaches;  Phaedra had extravaganza of a Christening for her handsome son Mr. President in which a long missed Dwight who created the event made his appearance. Ms. Kenya and her friend Ms. Lawrence visited the local sperm bank, to find her perfect baby daddy (confusing I know seeing as though she has her oil tycoon boyfriend). Ms. Cynthia and Peter discuss what happen at the vineyard and Kandi's comments towards Peter. Kandi and Todd land a big name artist for their play and Nene hosts a couples real talk session that goes awry.   Facebook, Twitter and almost every social networking site is ablaze over this epic episode, there people picking sides and even some siding with Kenya calling her a victim. As I read some the comments I can' help but to ask who is really the blame for the physical confrontation? Is it Nene who host the event, some say it was because she mentioned the comment at the party and that was the turning point, or was it Cynthia who was first told a little titillating detail about Todd being an "opportunist" by her friend Natalie (who is the girlfriend/wife of r&b singer Christopher Williams). Cynthia in turn tells some of the girls including Kenya about this detail, admits of her telling the story she tells the ladies that the information came Christopher Williams wife Natalie. The term "wife" evidently rubbed Kenya the wrong way which leads me to the person Kenya, does the blame lie on her? When she was confronted about her harsh words she had for Natalie Ms. Moore flew into full theatrics complete OMG don't touch me routine. Last but not least was it Mr. Williams who halted Ms. Kenya from getting closer to his wife or girlfriend.  Oh, I can't forget Ms. Kenya's reliable assistance Brandon, who is no stranger to drama seeing as though this is the same guy who almost fought Kordell last season for.. you guessed it defending Kenya.  Is it his fault remember he was the one who jumped up after Ms. Kenya cried don't touch me, trying to fight Mr. Williams.

So Let's Talk About It where do guys feel the blame lies?