So when I first heard the term live-in mistress I was confused, how can a woman who lives with her boyfriend be a live-in mistress. The whole idea of one being a mistress is being the man's side chick not the one he lives with or has a relationship with right. Well let's take a look, when I asked what in the world is a live-in mistress I was told its basically the woman is being used for a living space or temporary emotional fix for a man until he finds the one he desires to marry. During that time the man dates other women as if he is single, once he begins to envision himself with someone else or becomes closer to the other woman your place becomes more like a mistress and less of a girlfriend. The work he usually puts in to your relationship he is now focusing on something that is more permanent, something he can see himself growing from. The problem that exist is some women don't know that they have become the live-in mistress, they assume if the man is still the...
Okay, so while I was glancing over my Facebook page I came across this passage titled Bitchology, while reading the passage a certain complex feeling came over me, the passage was describing what it is to be a woman not a bitch. Since when did this term become a substitute for a woman, last time I checked a bitch is a female dog. Taking it a step further the term is also used to describe an female with unlady like qualities, basically a female who doesn't carry the qualities it takes to be a strong woman. When looking at how the world has changed I believe certain terms can't be generally washed away or renamed to match an undesirable lifestyle. Some may say that the word today doesn't carry the same meaning it had in the past, well think about it like this if someone comes up to you and says; "Hey Bitch" would you still look at that word as a positive term for a woman? also ask yourself would I rather be referred to as woman or a bitch? Think about it, Ladi...
As the world evolves and generations past some people are astonished by the overwhelming situations women still put themselves through. I compiled a list of thoughts that women should tell other women about: 1. Loving yourself is more than buying yourself fancy clothes, the latest shoes and driving the latest car. Loving yourself comes from within; it comes from being comfortable within your skin setting goals and values and living in the light rather than the dark. 2. In order to build a strong family you must first have a strong relationship with each other. We as women tend stay in unfulfilled relationships hoping for a change, but the change never comes. Instead of realizing that the relationship is a bust, we tend to attempt to build a family using shaky and worn out foundation that will soon crumble and fall. 3. Stop having babies to get you closer to the alter. Point blank if a man wants to be with you and marry you then guess, what he would have done it ...
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