What are the elements of love, what is so different in today's society where marriages and relationships seem to fall before they are securely structured? Back in February the longest living couple whom have been married for over 84 years were giving relationship advice for others seeking to save or rekindle their relationship. One comment from them that stuck the most to me is when they stated "communication is key" and there are no magical or quick fixes in marriage". Sometimes I feel by us living in such a quick and instant society we tend to look for a quick fix and if that fix or change doesn't come quick enough then hey the relationship is over. Now granted they are some relationship situations that are straight to the point deal-breakers, but there are some that can be worked-out if the love is really strong. You sometimes have to think what has that couple gone through after 84 years of marriage. I think we as people should figure out first what can and ...
So when I first heard the term live-in mistress I was confused, how can a woman who lives with her boyfriend be a live-in mistress. The whole idea of one being a mistress is being the man's side chick not the one he lives with or has a relationship with right. Well let's take a look, when I asked what in the world is a live-in mistress I was told its basically the woman is being used for a living space or temporary emotional fix for a man until he finds the one he desires to marry. During that time the man dates other women as if he is single, once he begins to envision himself with someone else or becomes closer to the other woman your place becomes more like a mistress and less of a girlfriend. The work he usually puts in to your relationship he is now focusing on something that is more permanent, something he can see himself growing from. The problem that exist is some women don't know that they have become the live-in mistress, they assume if the man is still the...
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